new music.

September 29, 2009

Consequence ft Kanye West && John Legend- "Whatever You Want"

Brandy ft Neyo- "Good Night, Good Morning"


50 sick off J.O.S.E. 2...

After listening to a leaked copy of Fat Joe's ninth solo album, rapper 50 cent was rushed to Mt. Sinai hospital according to

Fitty supposedly collapsed in his manhattan office, but quickly regained consciousness before the emt's arrived.

After a Cat Scan and EKG doctors reported damaged was sustained to his auditory cortex.

This dude is a character... smh

Fat Joe responded with:
“Tell 50 to get off my D*CK already, he was sick that my album is SO HOT that real music not that wack sh*t him and his clowns are making!!”

someone needs to learn how to take a joke... smh lol


win a pair of free 'Whogga Ugg' boots

The only thing better than the super indulgent luxury of a fresh pair of Whooga boots is the super indulgent luxury of a free pair of Whooga boots! All competition entrants will be sent a 15% discount and will also have a chance to win a pair of ugg boots!

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EVE shuts down 'fetish' clothing line for the 2nd time

September 28, 2009

Rapper turned actress/entrepenuer is shutting down her clothing line fetish, for the second time.

This time may be for good according to After disputes with her Inovo Group, Eve was set to revamp && relaunch the collection for the third time.
"You know what they say, third time's the charm. And I believe it -- it's my favorite number," she said last year."I would actually wear the new Fetish collection. I actually have this in my closet."
 But since she has focused more on her music && acting.  Eve is set to appear in Drew Barrymore's directorial debute "Whip It" out this October && has secured a guest spot on the sitcom "Glee".

Musically, Eve is currently a free agent after leaving Geffen Records.  She is reportedly working with the Ruff Riders again on a compilation album.

-I guess fashion just wasn't for her....

hypocritically speaking of course,


youts are so cold. RIP DERRION ALBERT!

 video of gang members beating 16 year-old Derrion Albert to death...

below NAS tries to reach out to the trouble youth in an open letter via

Dear Young Warriors fighting the wrong wars! Killing each other is definitely played out. Being hurt from the lost of a love one was never cool. Dear Young Warriors fighting the wrong war! I know that feeling , that frustration with life and needing to take it out on someone, any one. But….

We chose the dumbest things to go the hardest for. I remember seeing deaths over 8 ball jackets, fila’s , and name plate chains. Deaths over “he say she say”!!!!! “I’m from This block or I’m from that block”, or “my moms n pops is f*cked up now the whole world gotta pay”!!!

I remember feeling like I was the hardest “n*gga” breathin. And I couldn’t wait to prove it. But let’s think. What r we really proving?? And proving what to who?? Everybody knows Chicago breeds the strongest of the strong but I just feel, me, being ya brother from another state feels your pain as if I grew up with you in ya very own household.

You have the ability and mind power to change they way we are looked at. Look who’s watching us young warriors, look who’s throwin us in jail constantly, look at the ignorance in the world. Look at the racist dogs who love to see us down. Lovin to bury us in the ground or in jail were we continue this worthless war on one another. Young warriors…. We are WASTING more and more time. We gotta get on our jobs and take over the world. Cuz This movie left the theaters years ago, Juice, Menace, boys n the hood , blood n blood out, Belly!

When we see each other why do we see hatred? Why were we born in a storm, born soldiers, WARRIORS….and instead of building each other up we are at war with each other.. May the soul of this young person find peace with the almighty. I’m with you young warriors. You’re me and I’m you. But trust me! you are fighting the wrong war.


click here for the CNN story.


Publicity Stunt

So Khloe Kardashian && Lamar Odom tied the knot??
Interesting, very interesting considering:

  1. Khloe is the youngest of the 3 KK dolls
  2. Both her sister have been in long term relationship but none of them are jumpin' the gun.
  3. Y'alll dated for what, a month???
  4. Now, Lamar's ex says he's already cheated on Khloe (is this why you guys broke up in the first place??)

does odom have a thing for brunettes??

any who... here are some wedding pics via

uh yea... congrats you too.


New movies.

Saw VI- out this halloween

New Nightmare on Elm Street- out 4.30.10

Idk about y'all but I'm not especially thrilled to see these movies.  Saw needs to just quit.  And NOES is just not the same w/o the original Freddy.

hypocritically speaking of course,



It's Barbie B*tch! Mixtape

Yup Ms. Minaj is releasing her new mixtape!
(thanks to 2BD for the info)

something light to hold us over 'til she releases her album early 2010.
download it here...


Cabyness Make- up Giveaway!!!!

click here to enter

Items up for grabs:
2 pair of Falsies
5pc Eye Shadow Palette
Lancome Hypnose Mascara
Bare Escentuals Mineral Veil
Bath and Body Works Lip Licious
2 Mimi Cosmetics Eye Shadow
White Pearl Eye Pencil
Fashion Earrings
San San Pen LinerSan San Duo Eye Shadow used as Blush

Here are the rules:

1. You must be a follower of my blog.
2. Post about my giveaway in your blog and link your post to my giveaway.
3. Leave a comment in this post saying "I want in!" and paste the url of your blog post about my giveaway.
4. Winner will be chosen randomly through
5. There is only 1 (one) winner which will be drawn on October 9, 2009.



Hey y'all!

You read right! I, in partnership with am having a giveaway!

(the prize in any color you choose)

SO here's the deal:

To enter you must:
1.Be a follower of 'The Social Carnivore' blog.
2. You must repost this post on your site.
3. Leave a comment saying "I'm in!"

The entry that best captures my style will win ONE Pleated Chiffon Scarf in the color of their choice.

Entries must be in by October 29, 2009 to be considered.




September 27, 2009

The Cleveland Show is hilarious.

Long distance relationships are fcuking difficult...

I need a job, or get PAID for this blogging stuff...

I want a new smart phone (currently have the 'Samsung Behold' for T- Mobile) preferrably a new Crackberry.

I want a new background for this thing. Any suggestions?? 

This new formatting thing is great!!!!

hypocritically speaking of course,



Ready to Fly ft. DJ Noodles

New Drizzy Mixtape.

download it here.


HARAJUKU BARBIE: a 5 star chick

-gotta love ms. minaj

hypocritically speaking of course,


Respect Diddy's Hustle.


Posted using ShareThis

-just not his music. He's anti- dope.

hypocritcally speaking of course,


humble kanye?

September 26, 2009


nah just a throw back Kanye...

hypocritically speaking of course,


Neve Campbell agrees to star in forth 'Scream' movie

Teen-scream sensation Neve Campbell is last to join the returning cast of the cult classic "Scream" trilogy.

Earlier this year there was buzz about the much delayed sequel && in July, the husband/wife team David Arquette && Courtney Cox agreed to reprise their roles as 'Dewey Riley' && 'Gale Weathers'. YAY =)

At that time Campbell refused to reprise her starring role as 'Sydney Prescott', according to

I guess the talk of the movie continuing on with or with out here gave the starlette a change of ♥.

Writer/Director, Kevin Williamson, twitted about the reunion:

Yes on Neve guys! Read Variety! Whew! All I can say is “Whew”

Williams was referring to the article in Variety Magazine. Which read:

...I’m going back to doing what I do best,” Bob Weinstein has unveiled several films to be released by Dimension over the next year, many in 3-D. “Scream IV” will start production in April or May as the first of a new trilogy and the company is talking to Wes Craven to direct, Weinstein reports. Neve Campbell, Courteney Cox and David Arquette will star … The first three “Scream” pictures registered grosses of roughly $100 million a piece in the U.S.

I don't think you guys know how excited I am! The Scream Trilogies are in my top favorite [horror] movies of all time!!!

=) can't wait to see it...


ATTENTION: naturals

Hey blog babies!

So y'all know I've been complaining about the lack of hair care resources around my way...


Presenting 'HairRules" Salon!

The salon just opened this past following weekend in NYC! It was a star studded event Hair Rules Salon is dedicated to all hair textures && is known as a 'multi-textural salon'.

According to creative Director, Dickey “Our goal is to undo years of despair && disappointment by helping our clients re-discover their natural texture, embrace the versatility it offers, &&wear it however they choose – but via healthy, responsible methods.”

The 2,160 renovated loft space features eight cutting stations, four color stations, four drying stations and a comfortable living room where clients can relax && unwind between appointments. The space itself, at once industrial yet cozy && welcoming, is designed to evoke the concept of texture, with an eclectic melding of colors, textures, surfaces && fabrics, according to


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Just be a WOMAN about it A. Keys...

For a while now I've been trying to figure out if Alicia Keys && Swizz Beats were really having an affair...

Now, according to Mashonda (Swizzy's wife) they have been, A. Keys has just been too cowardly to admit it.

via Mashonda's twitter:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I've never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK's last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying " why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken". Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would've handled things more carefully. I'm not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don't have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what's real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the "people", this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I'm not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity'

first off let me just say that I do not like the public being involved in private matters (even in the real world with facebook &&shit) but this was something that completely had to happen...

I condone Mashonda for being a woman about it && holding onto her composure/dignity.

I never took Alicia for being a home wrecker but hey no body is 'holier than thou'. This will def affect how I view Ms. Keys && her music.

How can you sing about women empowerment when you just straight [helped] ruin another woman's family??

Like Mashonda says above, I'm not only blaming her, Swizz is MORE wrong. But if we, as women, can't look out for each other who will?

Mashonda you still a Batch in my book!

food for thought♥


new music.

Bird man ft Drake &&Lil Wayne
"Money To Blow"

&& we gon' be ok if we put Drake on every hook. -Lil Wayne, "Money To Blow"

anything Drake && you got my attention


men hate make up?!

September 25, 2009

so I was talking to the bf (as usual) after a bowled[see carnivore's dictionary] attempted at applying a full face of make up (foundation, blush, eyeshadow/liner, mascara, &&gloss) I was a little discouraged...

He began to lecture me about how much he hates make up && that I don't need it. The sweetie told me I was a batch[see c.d.] with or without the make up.


My question to you guys is this: Why do males hate females in that wear make up in the real world[c.d.] but idolize the celebrities that cake that stuff on their faces??

Food for thought♥


it's 11:05pm

First off let me just say it takes extreme dedication to be blogging on a friday night...

notby choice.

Any ways, at the start of this post it was 11:05 pm.

Thus I will share 11 things about me most of you don't know. And my 5 cents about something random...

1. I am a better friend to most of my friends then they are to me.

2. I use to smoke a ridiculous amount, and no not cigarettes.

3. I stopped smoking because it wasn't lady like, but I really miss it.

4. I was forced into learning to be alone && now I'm afraid that in the middle of conversations I revert back into my mind instead of listening.

5. I'm super sensitive. Like, ridiculously sensitive. So I'm always in attack mode. I will hurt you before you hurt me (social carnivore).

6. I'm jealous of other girls that can leave the house not matching. I'm too anal to ever do that.

7. I feel trapped in this point of my life && I don't feel like the average 21 year old.

8. I miss the old days were I was content just sitting in my room listening to music. I think I'm loosing my love of music =(

9. When I say I don't care what people think I'm completely lying. Somethings that some people say can really piss me off.

10. Speaking of that, I have anger issues. Not sure why but the slightest thing sets me off && I'm easily annoyed.

11. I'm proud of myself because I didn't think I could share this many things about myself (I always fight with myself over how much is too much info)


Why is that women never want a guy until he's taken? Are we that insecure or bored that we can't stand to see another woman happy? I think women who throw themselves at a man that is taken (knowingly) is pathetic. Get your own dude. Its not sexy, you look insecure && selfish. && that's exactly what a guy is looking for in a woman right? wrong. work on self then go find you a single guy.



By city high.
remember them?

well this is/was my song.


pretty for a black girl.


So today I took my niece to the neurologist (yup Ima good auntie) when a hispanic woman came over && started talking to me.

First off let me say that I don't like people (black, white, brown, spanish, asian, ALIVE) && if I don't already know you, then I don 't wanna get to know you.

But this middle- aged woman continues to talk my ear off while we sit in the waiting room. I'm pretty good at ignoring strangers (people I know && care for are a different story) when something she said actually reached me.

She had the nerve to say

You very pretty. What else are you? I know you can't just be Black.

stop the presses. Old b-i-itch say what??
Now I'm sure somewhere in that ignorance was a compliment, the problem is: I'm not digging that far in to find it!

So I said back to her:
no I'm just Black. 100% Black. 100% Beautiful.

Her face dropped && she scooted over a couple of seats. I guess she was trying to figure out if I had some spanish in me (or latino, idk which ever is politically correct) && thus wanted to bound.

Sorry to burst her bubble.

The thing about this is it wasn't the first time. Lately (since I've made the decision to go natural) I've been questioned a lot on my ethnicity. Partially because of my chinky/slanted eyes but more so for my curly/wavy hair

One time when I was in high school, some puerto rican dude told me I was "pretty for a black girl". See I went to h.s. in spanish harlem so my school was filled with em. So of course every black girl I knew was offended
1- because they wanted to be called pretty for their race (ignorant)
2- or because they didn't like me && thought I wasn't pretty.

for the record, I think I am badd =) yup with 2 "d's"

So because I don't like to feed into people's ignorance I tell people I am 100% black, which isn't the whole truth.

But I feel like I'm sticking to them to say 'yea we got some badd looking black women in the real world (not including celebrities)

So to set the record straight:

Eury is 50% Jamaican (mixed with Chinese, yes honestly...), 25% Black (straight negro), && 25% British/ Greek (for the simple- minded this means White).

If your still confused: My dad is Jamaican && Chinese and my mom is half Black && half White.

Yup... Ima mut =)

SHOUT OUTS: shout out to Shadé for the HOT header =) check out her blog


S-O G- oo- D

new music.

my baby Que finally getting his shine on. too bad this is a 'willie n them' vid.
watch && discuss.


Dear Mr. Man.

September 24, 2009

Yea I know. I can be stubborn && irrational at times, but you knew what you were signing up for.


You know what I mean.

Sorry, but somethings about me will never change. I just want you to make me feel less crazy when the rest of the world tells me I'm insane.

Today, I feel like you've been making me feel like a psycho. I know I've been doing better because we haven't argued in a week.

the minute I get upset your compassion goes out the window. You never relate, instead you make me feel like I have no reason to be feeling this way.

May be you needed this in writing, cuz I can't keep saying it.

Good night.


I want this shirt.

that is all...


new music.

Trina && Lady Gaga- "let them hoes fight"

will be bumping this one...


nicki lewinski.

Nicki Minaji had her first photo shoot with Honey Mag

-think I've got a girl crush...


spoken word.

September 23, 2009



hoe please.


This is a public service announcement...

If you have multiple sex partners (some of which, you don't know their last names), your idea of a date is fcukin' in ur homeboy's bathroom, you can no longer count on your fingers &&toes how many dudes have ran up in you...

you're a slore.
a whore.
...whatever the kids are calling it these days.

Ok gather 'round, its story time

So I know a girl, lets call her Angie.
Angie, whom I haven't spoken to in months (partially because I was distancing my self, you know the old sayin 'show me who your friends are && I'll show you who you are') so she decides to confide in me, probably because she doesn't have many female friends...

Angie, thinks she's pregnant. Hoeray!
No, this isn't one of those "I'm so happy for you" moments.
I accidently uttered,who's the father?
cuz UMMMMM last time I checked, she was single && had been for a long time.

And do you know what hoe said?
I think this dude named Roc.

Ok, back track.
Angie, is some one I met in college my freshmen year.
She was one of those girls that did extra shit to get attention but swore she didn't have to do anything but walk in a room to and be the center of attention.
She also was willing to do whatever to keep that attention, including sexin' everything that walks (she was a liquor lesbo).
No body really respected her but she was popular && the go to person for parties, so lots of people tolerated.

Back to the story.
Naturally I'm thinking: what do you mean 'you think'? what's his real name? does she know it? why would you even sleep with some one who calls them self Roc?
So I asked her what she planned on doing about the situation.

DISCLAIMER: I am pro choice, its your body I just hope your ready to live with the choices you make.

The b*tch goes:

"(sucks teeth) Ima get rid of it! Don't no man want some chick with kids... How would I look??"(exact words here)

So many things wrong this, where shall I start?
1. your more worried about finding a man than finishing school.
2. your not concerned with your emotional or physical well being, just as long as you remain appealing to men.
3. if a man doesn't want you after you've had a child, he probably wouldn't of wanted you before (don't blame the kids lol)

My point
if your a hoe, own it. admit to it.
if you have no desire to better yourself, own it. admit to it.
whatever your flaw, love it && keep it moving.

I know this was random, but oh well


def poetry- black ice

September 21, 2009


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